If there was one phrase that could capture the spirit of the CDM Leaders’ Retreat 2026, it would be “renewed in unity.” Over three enriching days from 3 to 5 July 2026, leaders from various BECs and ministries gathered at the Archdiocesan Retreat House, Villa Dominic, Genting Highlands, to pause from their daily responsibilities and reconnect with God, one another, and the mission entrusted to them.
In the midst of busy schedules, demanding commitments, and the challenges of parish leadership, the retreat provided a much-needed opportunity for reflection, healing, and fellowship. Set against the cool and tranquil backdrop of Genting Highlands, Villa Dominic offered an ideal environment for prayer, contemplation, and meaningful conversations. The peaceful surroundings allowed participants to step away from the distractions of everyday life and focus on their spiritual growth and leadership journey.
The retreat commenced on Friday evening with Vespers, orientation, and fellowship activities designed to help participants get to know one another across different BECs and ministries. Laughter, conversations, and shared experiences quickly broke down barriers and created a warm atmosphere of openness and friendship. What began as a gathering of leaders soon became a community united by a common purpose.
The central theme throughout the retreat was inspired by Archbishop Julian Leow’s call, “In the One, we are one.” This message resonated deeply as participants explored both the joys and challenges of their ministry. During the opening Mass, leaders were invited to reflect on the importance of serving as one body in Christ despite the diversity of roles, personalities, and ministries within the parish community
To kick off the retreat, participants openly shared their personal experiences of leadership challenges. Through honest discussions and group interactions, leaders discovered that many of their struggles were shared by others. This created a spirit of mutual encouragement and strengthened the understanding that no one serves alone. The subsequent workshops challenged participants to seek practical and faith-filled responses to these difficulties, culminating in the development of “Unity Response Plans” that reflected both creativity and collaboration.
A highlight of the retreat was the inspiring series of talks conducted by Rev. Fr. Xavier Andrew, who guided participants through the theme of “Healing Through Christ: Restoring the Heart of Leadership.” His messages challenged leaders to embrace heart-centred leadership by following the example of Christ, who led with humility, compassion, and selfless service. Participants reflected on the importance of inner healing, recognising that transformed hearts inspire healthy and life-giving communities. Through group discussions and skit presentations, leaders explored practical challenges such as servant leadership, burnout, conflict resolutions, mentorship, and integrity.
A particularly moving moment came when Father played the song “His Grace Will Carry You,” touching everyone’s hearts. He reminded us of God’s ongoing work within us – refining andtransforming us through struggles, challenges, and uncertainties. God is faithfully shaping us into the people He has called us to be, completing the good work He began in each of us.
The retreat concluded with Father inviting each participant to make a personal commitment to take concrete steps toward becoming more courageous and Christ-like leaders – leaders who listen attentively, discern prayerfully, and serve joyfully for the growth of God’s Kingdom.
Another memorable experience was the Pilgrim Walk: Stations of Unity and Healing. As participants journeyed through the retreat grounds in small groups, they reflected on Scripture passages centred on Healing Broken Relationship, Unity in Diversity, Healing from Fatigue in Service, Listening & Understanding, Walking As One Mission, Gratitude & Encouragement, Trusting God Together, Persevering Together, Called to Serve and Sent Forth in Unity. This meaningful act of walking, reflecting, and praying together became a powerful reminder that leadership itself is a journey best travelled in communion with others and with God.
Through heartfelt sharing, prayer, and reflection, leaders were encouraged to recognise personal wounds, embrace hope, and minister from a place of healing rather than hurt. Many found the walk deeply relevant, as they touched on the realities of ministry, including fatigue, limited resources, low participation, and the demands of balancing service with personal commitments.
The evening Holy Hour, Benediction, and Healing Prayer Service was perhaps one of the most profound moments of the retreat. In an atmosphere of prayerful silence and worship, participants were invited to surrender their burdens, disappointments, and personal struggles before the Lord. Many experienced a deep sense of peace and renewal as they encountered God’s mercy and healing presence. It was a moment that touched hearts and reminded leaders that effective ministry begins with a relationship rooted in Christ.
On the final day, Sister Margarete Sta Maria inspired participants to embrace leadership with courage, strength, and hope, embodying the spirit of Synodality. She emphasised that while change is temporary, true transformation endures. As leaders, we must be willing to change and lead with our hearts. Practicing active listening to the Holy Spirit is essential, as He guides us in leading His people to meaningful action.
Sister Margarete encouraged us to value every member across all BECs, promoting inter-BEC collaboration to foster unity within diverse communities and enhance pastoral care. She reminded us to always speak the truth with love.
The retreat concluded with Mass and Commitment Ceremony, during which leaders renewed their dedication to serve faithfully and in unity. The lighting of candles and offering of the signed “Covenant of Mission” served as a visible reminder of their shared commitment to build vibrant BECs and parish life rooted in Gospel values.
Testimonials from our participants
St Paul BEC leader, Molinih Jipius, shared, “The three-day retreat was more than a series of talks and activities. It was a grace-filled encounter that reminded us all that leadership is not merely about fulfilling responsibilities, but about walking together in faith, healing together in Christ and serving united as one family of God.”
Youth leader, Adrian Thomas reflected, “I came to the retreat physically exhausted, but I left spiritually renewed, transformed, and filled with hope. Through prayer, reflection, and fellowship, Christ restored my heart and reminded me that true leadership begins with humble service. I returned home with renewed purpose, deeper faith, and a willingness to lead as He calls me to lead.”
BECCOT leader, Christopher Eddie, said, “Organising the retreat was truly fulfilling when we saw leaders and participants coming together – sharing meals, getting to know one another, and ensuring that no one was left alone. Conversations flowed naturally as everyone talked, walked, listened, and engaged with one another, creating a warm, joyful, and welcoming atmosphere throughout the retreat. Despite their tiredness, they cheerfully washed dishes after every meal and prepared fruits for all 120 participants, reflecting their dedication and community spirit. Our intention in organising this retreat has always been to support the BECs in overcoming the challenges they face in leading their respective communities. With the unwavering support of our beloved Priest, Rev Father George Harrison, our efforts have remained strong. Many BECs, one church – Our aim has been fulfilled!”
Refreshed and inspired, the leaders returned home with hearts renewed and a stronger resolve to live out the call: “In the One, we are one.”
BECCOT, Church of the Divine Mercy, Shah Alam